anyhow, do you have any habits you adhere to?
jay and i have our own code/habits: no gas-passing in the bedroom, whoever is the last one out of bed has to make it, the coffee IS ALWAYS made the night before & set to auto brew (4:30am), & no dishes left in the sink at night.
i'm trying to add flossing to my daily list after a terribly depressing visit to the dentist (i'd been away for 9 years). upon leaving the doc smiled at me and said, "you're not a bad person." i had been hoping for "you're not gross" or "it's not that bad".